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What efforts do you give in a relationship to build a strong bond?


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Holding hands: Efforts

Everyone falls in love but that's not a relationship I guess! As you know LOVE doesn't have a perfect definition as well as RELATIONSHIP. I can only say it's a bonding and you will have a strong inner feeling even you can see the same feeling in your partner. It might be in a different way. I'm a pet lover so, I'm giving an example of a pet. You can feel the REAL Love when your pet sees you after a long time and runs towards you, licking you all over to prove that it missed you.


Today, I'm sharing my experiences of my relationship. I have seen a lot of things in a relationship, I think everyone does. But we only have to see efforts to build a home with him. As I told you earlier, that I'm only sharing my experience. I could sense that when my MAN trusts me by sharing all of his secrets with me when He sends me a lost text message, I could sense that, and when He acknowledges my pain without saying something.  I could tell he cared about me as if he were my parents when he looked after me.  I could tell when he wasn't stealing my "me" time from me.  I could tell when he chastised me for not eating properly. I am almost drenched in REAL Love when he accepts me exactly as I am, with no modifications! All the things I have said above, he never spoke a word about it. but he does all the things in actions that we may refer to as 'Efforts'.


The efforts should be from both sides, You also have to give efforts. I always try to give some efforts in my relationship, so I'm discussing it below:


Trust him: In any type of relationship, one of the most important aspects is trust. When you trust a man, he feels safe because he doesn't have to worry about being judged. In that case, they'll start opening up to you about it without you having to use your interrogative skills.


Encourage him: Instead of being a naysayer, be the woman who encourages your boyfriend to rise. You'll be a good partner in his eyes, heart, and mind once he realizes you believe in him.


Be honest: A woman who lies is hated by men. We all know that no one likes a girl or boy who lies. How can he trust you if you can't even be honest with him in the most basic of matters? If you don't want him to do the same, be the girl who never gives him a reason to lose faith in you.


Respect his time with friends:  It's also important to remember that he has other relationships in his life (friends, family). Maybe it can be a friendship with his ex until he crosses his limits value his emotions.  Value his time with his mates, and he will respect you for appreciating those who are valuable to him.


Don't flirt with other men: A healthy partner is loyal and trustworthy; she would not make her boy jealous by flirting with other men. Fix your gaze solely on him to demonstrate how desirable and faithful you are. It's easy to stay with a lot of men, but it's more difficult to stick with only one.


Appreciate his little efforts: Your boy also needs to know and feel appreciated for his efforts. Let him know how much you appreciate him and how much you appreciate everything he does for you. It will make him feel better about himself, as well as improve your relationship. 


Don't take him for granted: Taking your boyfriend for granted is the worst thing you can do to him. Pay attention to him and continue to appreciate all of the little things you used to admire about him.


Send him sweet messages: Every day, a short message saying 'Good Morning' or 'I love you' will brighten his day. He will love it no matter how short it is, as long as it is sweet because it makes him feel like you remember him every day.


Listen to him when he needs you: One of the most important things you can do as a girlfriend is to listen to him so you can understand what he wants and meet those needs. And can stand by him in every situation.


Stop nagging: One of a man's worst nightmares is a nagger. Continued nagging can irritate your boy and lead to the end of your relationship.



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Accepting each other


Help him break his limits: Your boy already has enough people in his life who keep discouraging him to go beyond his limits.  As a result, be his personal cheerleader. Encourage him and assist him in realizing his full potential.


Let him be: As a girlfriend, you should respect him as a 'man'. Give his freedom and let him be without constantly attempting to change him.


Accept his flaws:   Don't expect your partner to be perfect because he's trying to be perfect in his own ways.  A good and stable relationship is built on the acceptance of each other's shortcomings.


Don't dwell on the past: When you have a fight with your partner, don't bring up the past. Allow your relationship to move forward and grow stronger by letting bygones be bygones.


Don't make a decision when you're angry: If you don't want to come to regret your decisions later, don't make them in the first place, particularly when you're angry. Allow yourself time to calm down so you can make the best decision possible.



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Unique Bond


Don't let the day end without fixing your problems: A good partner will not let the day pass without resolving the problem. If you really care about his feelings, you'll try to resolve the situation as soon as possible, before things get worse. And the longer it takes, the more difficult it is to address for both of you.


Pamper him: Cook for him, get him a thoughtful present, or make him breakfast in bed. Be the girl who always has nice things to say to him.


Give him space: Why not give him some breathing room instead of placing pressure on him? Space for him to be alone, with his friends, at work, or whatever he wants.


Be independent: If you don't have to depend on him all of the time, you're a good partner. Your boy wants you to be a little reliant on him. If you do so, you will appear more responsible.


Be empathetic: Your ability to put yourself in another's shoes, consider their emotions, and accept their points of view seems to be in free fall. It's not easy to be a man, so instead of constantly trying to convince him of your point of view, try to listen to his.



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