Self Love is a new growing topic nowadays.
You all see lots of people using this word a lot nowadays. But do you all really know what is SELF LOVE actually means? Loving yourself is a common outlook for it. Self-love actually means loving yourself just not at your best but mainly also at your worst. Pampering yourself doesn’t actually cover up self-love self-love self-love itself-love having self-love the meaning of self-love. Self-love is a mechanism. It’s being your raw and unapologetic self. It’s a way of accepting all the flaws gracefully and loving yourself no matter what. We are human beings we aren’t perfect we have our own flaws and it’s really important to accept our own flaws because that’s YOU. Self-love means accepting own self at every single point of life. Putting yourself is the first most step of loving yourself.
You all will read lots of articles and quotes about self-love. Reading quotes only won’t help u instantly. It would only help you when you’re going to accept yourself with all the flaws and along with having the intention to be a BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF.
You just have to be your true self. Express yourself wherever you feel you should but in this journey of self-love never try to demean anyone in the name of self-love. You will face many things in your life while talking through this way which will try to break your self-esteem. But do those unsolicited opinions of others matter in your life? NO. Other validations don’t matter. No one owns you. It's YOU who owes you, your acceptance matters only. You just have to let go of all those opinions which are in return trying to pull you down.
Loving yourself is a beautiful journey of self-discovery. You may read about this a lot and here you to reading it but I’m being honest to you it's YOU who can only discover you not me or anyone, I’m here just giving you my two cents about the journey.No one could explain you the process how it is done.
Everyone has their separate journey. It’s an everyday mechanism. It’s YOUR journey. You’ve to walk through it. You’ve to face all the challenges and obstacles. No one would hold your hand and won’t help you to cross the road. You’ve to choose it your own. • safar bah-at suhana hain yeh rahe bah-at sundar hain chalte raho baas •
It’s your journey, your story, your struggle, your pain, your joy, your happiness, your accomplishment, your road to travel, your setback, your comeback, and your destination. You’ll be walking through it all alone on your own. No one gonna is your walking stick. You’ve to be your own support system and your own cheerleader. You’ve to face all the negativity alone and have to fight against those. Firstly you’ve to fight against all the negative thoughts inside your brain then you can fight against the outer world. This a long process. Self-love needs patience. It may take months or years ...
But yes don’t Give Up. It’s a gradual process. It may take time but it will give u lifetime happiness. It’s important. It’s needed. Mental happiness over anything. Take your own time. Invest in yourself. Do things that make you happy. Fall in love with yourself. Don’t give up on it. No matter what always keep loving yourself. Accept your flaws. Embrace your insecurities. Give yourself more important. Do small things for yourself which instantly make you feel good. In the end, everyone gonna leave. Nothing lasts forever. Just You who will be there for You till the last dot of the galaxy.
If giving yourself more importance and keeping yourself as your priority is a sign of selfishness then Be Selfish but actually, it’s not a sign of selfishness from any angle.
Take time. Plant the seed keep watering it and let it grow strong enough.
• Always remembers that LOVING YOURSELF IS THE TRUE BEAUTY. It's THE PURE FORM OF LOVE. YOU ARE IN THIS WORLD FOR YOURSELF TO MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY NOT FOR ANYONE ELSE AND TRUST ME IF U START LOVING YOURSELF YOU WILL REALISE HOW MUCH PEACEFUL IT IS. •
• TAKE THE TRAIN OF SELF LOVE AND ENJOY THE JOURNEY. DONT MISS THIS TRAIN •
I hope everyone who is reading it could able to love themselves with all the heart by accepting the flaws and embracing insecurities.
With love 💛